So, what exactly is an “Abilities Coach”?
I am sure many of you have heard of a life coach, right? While life coaches and abilities coaches do differ, they share two important factors. Both strive to help you move forward, and both can partner with you for the purpose of taking focused and meaningful action in YOUR LIFE.
As your abilities coach, my goal is to collaborate with you to discover, or rediscover, your interests and strengths in a way that will better serve you. Based on those discoveries, I can help you facilitate personal growth, and lead you to informed, conscious choices. I want to help you find empowerment through your heart, your body and the communities around you.
I can be an advocate for you.
More specifically, I can serve as an educator to help those around you (i.e. your partners, your parents, your teachers or employers) increase their awareness about your struggles with differing styles in learning, ADHD, and other difficulties with executive functioning. This can help them understand you and join us in supporting you to achieve your goals.
I can help you find supports and strategies that feel natural to you, and match your personal traits. This will support the “here and now”, but may also serve your future independence.
Here’s how:
- An abilities coach helps you sort out the science vs. the superstition of your unique circumstances.
"I prefer to work from the idea that my client is a Science of ONE. When the obvious advice isn’t working, it means you are paying attention to the wrong things. At times like this I ask, "Are you focused on your strengths or your weaknesses? To which do you apply your resources and how?"
- An abilities coach works from the understanding that executive functioning is different for everyone. Coaching is an individualized process based on you.
"Awareness of ourselves as individuals allows us to find a comfortable place in our community."
- An abilities coach is trained in systems, tools and strategies designed to help you find support. It is important to hire a trained coach.
- Abilities coaching can help apply a reasonable structure of accountability in your life.
- An abilities coach fosters awareness of how your personal beliefs impact your life.
“What we believe has more power in our lives than the truth.”
- Abilities coaching addresses negative self-talk.
"What is the story you are telling yourself?"
Over time, you may have built up frustrations based on feeling like you can’t do things, or that your not as good as other people.
"What you focus on grows."
- An abilities coach often works in conjunction with other members of your support team, such as your life partner, a therapist, physician, psychiatrist, employer or employment counselor.
- An abilities coach can help you mix and match solutions to find what works best for you.
"You are heard and understood in the context of your varying abilities."
I am on your side. You are not alone. I can be your coach because I understand, as an individual, a mother, and a professional, many of the things you are struggling with.
Through my connection with other professionals at A Community in Motion, and partners in our community, I have access to a wealth of information that can help you find the things you need to succeed.
Whether you’re an individual, parent, student or employer, I can help.
For more information please feel free to contact me: 603-443-9639.
~In the Spirit of Learning,
Theresa Chausse
Abilities Coach, Practice Manager
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